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best friend moving school.
(this might be long sorry)
so the title pretty much says it..
my bestfriend who ive litteraly been friends with since I was a baby is moving school.
we go to an all girls school in the city (we live about 20-30minutes outside it) there is a mixed school about 5minutes away from where we live but its not considered to be one of the best if you know what I mean like its pretty much a bunch of wasters out there if im to be blunt heh,
anyway so were going into our 5th year of school (Im not sure what that is in schools elsewhere but its our second last year of school and were 16.)
so she was in out present school up until now so 4years but she always talked about wanting to go to the mixed school but she was never allowed,none of us really knew why she wanted to move because she was happy in our school and its not like we dont have any guy friends theres guys schools right around the corner from us and we know alot of guys out where we live,but her mum and dad eventually gave in and so shes moving. school starts back this thursday and I honestly dont know what im going to do,i mean dont get me wrong ive got alot of other friends too but its not the same if you know what i mean.
like id come into school and wed rush to find each other to tell each other something,wed always go in to school on the first day with each other,i guess im just going to feel lost i dont know how to describe it,everyone always has say their group of friends right and everyone gets on,but like each person has a best friend that they pair up with for stuff if you get me?
its just going to be weird without her.
im also worried were going to drift apart,like we live 10minutes apart but its different when were not in school together we will be doing our own thing we talked and we both promised not to let anything come between us but i cant help feeling that we will drift and become per ocupied with other friends,im worried she will change too because she takes on a different personality around certain people that go to her new school its not good for her,everyones saying it she knows herself she wont work out there either guys there and theese next 2years in school are really important (lol sorry i dont mean to come across as a nerd or anything but you know)
were texting now at the moment and she was sayin how shes depressed,and I said why she said its just starting a new school and end of summer and that.
I asked her was she nervous about school cos thats normal(even though we know alota people who go there) and that i feel the same about summer..
she text back no "its u im gonna miss u :("
so im in tears now..I dont know how to handle this? anyone been in a similar situation?school actually wont be the same we had such a laugh together,lately shes been having second thoughts and whenever people ask her why she wanted to move she hasnt got an answer..ugh I just dont know. I dont even know what im asking at this stage think im just venting... has anyone any advice?ever been in this type of a situation..if so how did you cope and like what happend
so sorry this is so long too
Thanks in advance.
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Your friend decided to go to the other school to get a different feel for the world. Not to only be in an all girls school, but to be in a boys/girls school. To see what real life is all about.
I don't think she'll drift, but she may change. A public school will change someone and there is no doubt about that.
But, I moved away from my main school to another state and my bestfriend and I are still really good friends. Just for the fact that she got pregnant and ended up moving in with me.. Ha!
I'd suggest don't worry about it, just try to talk alot, and get together as much as possible.
She'll change but so with you. You want to stay friends it's like a relationship, have to make time for each other, other wise.. You're going to fall apart..
so just keep in mind friendship is like a relationship.. got to make time for one another.
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