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Does he really like me or he is just a flirt.?
Around a year ago, I took a class called the JROTC. basically in that class we dont do nothing , our class just chill and talk for the rest or the period. And i been noticing that a boy liked me in that class named Felix. But i didnt wanted to go out with him at the time because he was a freshmen and i was a sophmore. So i just ignored him and stuff.One day in class for some reason the teacher started switching seats and i end up sitting next to Felix. Felix was soo sweet and nice to me i could help it i started liking him. So when he both got a little bit close to each other the class was already saying that we were going out and we weren't we was just talking. So on Valentines Day, Felix told me that he really loved me and that he promised me that we would get married and i was soo shocked because i also had the same feelings as he did. So we started hold hands in the hallway and he would always kiss me everytime he took me to class.It was really sweet.He would give me butterflies everytime i see him. The next day, something bad happend to Felix, my principle and the secerity guard found weed in Felix's pockets and they locked him up fot 4 weeks. When i found this out i was shocked. The whole time tha t he was locked up people kept on going up to me saying different stories about what happened that day. What really happened was that his cousin told Felix to hold hold the bag of weed until lunch time and Felix refused by his cousin told him again to hold it for him until lunch starts na d just took it and put it in his pockets. As Felix was walking to the bathroom, Im guessing that the secerity guard smelled the weed that in his pocket and thought that, that was his and it wasnt. But anyways when Felix got out of Juvie, he couldnt go back to school because of problem that happen so his mom though that Felix should go to New York to live. When Felix told me that i was crushed. I kept on asking him " how is our relationship is going to work if your all the way in new york and im in massachusetts.?" He just told me that he still going to keep that promise that he told me about us getting marry and kids together. We started talking hours in the phone everydaym when he left. Ever since he left, i wanted to remain single until Felix comes back and that was next year, over the summer. Now Felix and I are in our final years of high school( Seniors ) and we still be talking. Basically we been talking for 2 years and we havent gone out yet. We also talk alot thru myspace and as i see his comment... THERE ALL GIRLS! Calling him cutie and babez and commenting his pics calling him sexy and stuff. Im just thinking he just playing on me or im i going overboard.? I want to ask about that but i dont want him to think that im jealous or something. What should i do?
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okay, first you need to ask felix what he wants to do, if he wants to be friends, or take it farther.. it sounds like you want to make it work, but the distance is a problem you need to decide if its to much of a problem and go from there, you were only a sophomore when he told you he wanted to marry you and have kids? chances are you were only 15 or 16.. you have your WHOLE life ahead of you, you don't have to settle on this one guy in my opinion you should date around your senior year and find out if felix really is the guy for you, and he should do the same.. if he hasn't already and if you decided that he is the one for you then tell him that, tell him you want to be with him in a relationship. If you guys arn't in a relationship.. and hes talking to other girls its hard because you can't really say anything you can tell him that it upsets you.. but you can't really tell him to stop. its up to you do.. just do what ever your heart is telling you to do, don't let someone else make this decision for you guys.
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