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Gay
Hi im 16 male and im gay and ive been with my bf for almost 9 months we are great together we love each other a lot we recently came out and well everyone seem fine with it although a couple of people have made a point to say what they think they say were abnormal they call us freaks and that we are sick ive tried to ignore them but it can be hard to take my bf has been distanced lately hasnt said much ive tried to talk to but he doesnt want to talk im getting worried all this he might not want to be with me i really love him what do i do?
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hey there,sorry for not answering straight away, =)
okay first off those people are seriously immature and pathetic people like that annoy me.
never let them make you think bad or any less of yourself for being gay,there is nothing abnormal about it.
nobody should have to be ridiculed like that but unfortunately there are those sadistic people out there and we just have to let they're opinions flaot over our heads.
it shouldnt matter what any of them think.
im going to be blunt,if your boyfriend really loves you he wont care what anyone thinks of your relationship,and if he does,he shouldnt. simple.
I can understand why hes being a bit distant its probably not with you hes just finding it hard to cope with the insults and ridicules he is probably wondering if those people are right and if so he needs to get those thoughts out of his head dont let people like that come between your relationship,give him a little more time and see if he comes around if not try talking to him again but this time ask him straight out whats he thinking,if hes questioning the relatinship because of it well then honestly I would strongly sugest you move on and find someone else because no matter what there are always gonna be those few who just cant except anything different then what they class as "normality"
so he wont last long in many other relationships and if he tried to become straight hed be fooling himself and being someone hes not.
I hope I made some sense,and helped in any way at all.
im sorry you have to deal with those people,just remember your the bigger and better person.
Hope everything works out and your bf comes around,
much <3
Jess -16.F x
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