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affair, perhaps?
okay i already know how awful this is.. so thats beside the point.... :/
So about two summers ago, me & one of my friends started hooking up, & basically we have been ever since. When we first hooked up, he had a girlfriend, but i was single. (i know its still bad) but, a few months after we were hooking up i got a boyfriend. & we've been together ever since. Hes still with his same girlfriend. But, both of our relationships are off and on things. I do love my boyfriend alot, but i've had these feelings for my friend for so long. I get soo excited whenever he comes over, & im so happy when im around him, he just gives me this tingling feeling inside. I don't know if he feels the same though. like hes so cute when hes with me and stuff, but blahhh idk. I know this hasnt directed any certain question. But, give me some advice on what to doooo. I cant continue doing this, it has to stop somewhere.
thanks soooo much <3
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Well, there is certaintly a huge lack of communication. For starters, you really need to talk to your boyfriend about the situation, and your friend needs to talk to his girlfriend. You already know this, but I think you need to hear it from somebody else. Its not fair what you are hiding from your boyfriend, he is 100% commited in the relationship, and you aren't. You both need to come clean, its the right thing to do. Put yourself in his shoes, Im sure it would break your heart to know he was cheating on you. Now that thats cleared up, back to the situation:
Aside from talking to your "real partners," you and your friend need to talk to each other. Ask him what he feels about your relationship together, and tell him he needs to make a decision, so do you; you shouldn't keep this cheating going on anymore. Relationships are established by honesty, trust, and love. So far this isn't a very good start. :-(
Good luck, everything will be cleared up you just need to be honest and come clean, and have open communications! :-)
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Yah. You're right. You can't keep doing this. So stop.
Well, unless you want to continue being assholes together with zero regards for the feelings of others who have put their trust in you, and their hearts into your hands.
It's up to you to end it.
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You need to stop it now. You cannot continue to hook-up with this boy. I don't care how he makes you feel, it can't continue.
The only way it can is if the both of you are willing to leave your partners for each other. You cannot keep cheating on your significant others. I'm sure you would hate it if your boyfriend was doing to you what you were doing to him.
Either stop hooking up with this kid, or dump your boyfriend & stay single.
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