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i like this boy
there is this boy that i really like, but i dont know him and i want to get to know him. So what could i do to get to know him?
there is this boy that says im pretty and that he likes me, but i dont like him, so im afraid if he asks me out and if he does what should i do?
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Alright, to answer your first question .. guys like it when you have the confidence to just approach them. Im serious, they love it. And they want you to just walk up to them as much as you want them to do the exact same thing. But be forewarned, once you get to know him, you might not really like him anymore haha, sometimes people's personalities aren't what they seem. But anyways. If you really DONT want to just go up to him, introduce yourself and whatnot, you could ask around, get his name and find out what he's all about. Then you can just casually "bump" into him and like apologize or something, and then start a conversation. Or you could search him on facebook or something [if you're old enough and have one] and add him, then start from there. or if you go to school with him, you could see what teachers he has and stuff, then ask him about the teachers and if there was homework or whatnot. [if its the same teacher you have] you just have to build up the confisdence to just talk to him because if you don't talk to him, you'll never get to know him :] you can do it, it's no big deal girl.
to answer your second question ... oh man, I have been in your same exact position. Don't freak out though, because if he DOES ask you out, there is absolutley NO HARM in saying, "im sorry but i don't want to ruin the friendship we have, i think things are awesome just the way they are :] you're a sweet guy and i know youll find a girl who will want to be with you."
If you let them down gently and nicely it will be alright and nothing bad will happen and no drama will go down. If you don't like him, don't agree tyo go out with him because you feel bad, yuh know ? That's like the worst possible soloution EVER trust me hahaa :]
good luck ! have fun and don't sweat it, you got this :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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