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Hey, so my fiance and I decided we are going to have sex for the first time, Im excited. She told me that when she masterbates, she gets to a point where she feels so good and she orgasms and her vagina pulses, and then she feels like a switch was turned off or something, like she doesnt want to have sex anymore. Any advice on this? Something I can do to her to make her feel amazed without loosing touch. I know theres something called the g spot that she rubs, and she said she loves that because she cums, is that normal? I just dont want to hurt her, I care for her deeply.
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The previous answer is great, so I don't need to repeat what was said there. I will just answer one small specific thing.
To hit the g-spot, slide your finger inside and almost hook it forward, like you are saying "come here." There will be a soft spot and you will know you have hit it because she will react. As to the best way to stimulate it, every woman is different. Ask her to show you. Yes, ask her to masturbate for you so you can see what pleases her. It may seem awkward at first, but it is a start to great foreplay and amazing sex.
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Think about it this way, after you ejaculate you have to get yourself back into the mood to go at it again. After she orgasms its sort of a signal that sex is over, but you can both get back into the mood to have sex again soon after. In average people have it once at a time. You can use toys, foreplay, fantasy, anything that will get you both ready to have sex. You can try to go multiple times but don't worry about it since its the first time for you two.
Stimulating the clitoris and the g-spot are said to be sure fire orgasm zones. But it can be hard for women to orgasm, don't be mad at yourself if it doesn't happen the first time. You need to talk to her, find out what she specifically likes, and how to please her. Cosmopolitan.com has a lot of tips, positions, and ideas for sex. They had a pretty in depth article about stimulating the G spot, maybe you can find it online.
Good luck,
Abby
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