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Question Posted Saturday August 15 2009, 2:37 pm

so i have a friend, she has crushed on every single one of my guy friends. it didnt bother me to much before because the ones she liked before were the ones who already had their own crushes or just didnt want a girlfriend. now she is trying to get with one of my friends whose single and looking. they started texting and not they text eachother even when they are in the same room and they'll both just ignore me. i got so mad i told both of them they can have eachother and i will just walk away because this is way to much drama for me and i cant deal with it. now they both decided they dont want to go out because they're friendship with me is more important. but whose to say this girl wont go after another one of my guy friends. i dont see her to much as a threat but what if she tries to go after my crush next? so my question is: was i out of line for getting so mad, when she went after 4 of my other guy friends? should i let them be together and walk away from our friendships? why cant she find a guy who isnt my friend?

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SammiLynne answered Wednesday August 19 2009, 3:49 pm:
If the two of them like eachother thats fine but if they are ignoreing you then you were not out of line by telling them how you feel. Its ok for you to express to them that when they ignore you it makes you mad it would make anyone mad. Maybe if you told them that they were ignoreing you and it really bothered you. IF you really wouldnt mind them dateing tell them that. Just make sure they understand that if they start blowing you off again that you dont want to be friends with them.

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Niinakins answered Saturday August 15 2009, 9:03 pm:
heyy, i think that if your friends want to go out then its totally fine, but about ignorrin you?? thats a little rude and i understand your frustration ithink you should talk to her about it.. tell her that if she wants to hit on your friends then whatever its her problem but your crush is off limits! and also you could tell her that when shes with "your friend" "her crush" she could try not to ignore you because you dont like it. im pretty sure that would help. if not let me knowwwww! id love to help you

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