I have a friend who I really like, and I'm ready to ask her out but don't know how to do it. Should I keep it short and sweet, just coming out and saying "I like you?" Should I profess my feelings? Should I just ask her if she likes me? Please be specific, like put it down in a specific conversation, because I'm lost here. Thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Niinakins answered Friday August 14 2009, 9:37 pm: hey. i cant really give you specific confersations because it all depends on your relationship with her. but im gonna try to help you as much as i can. it depends on how well you know her. if you've known her for a long time then flirt a little. i know it sucks when you get rejected but girls dont like to have to make the first move nor do they like haveing to wait an iternity for the guy to ask her out. so just trust your instincts and take her some where nice. tell her that you really like her and like being with her and being friends isnt enough for you. you want to be her boyfriend because you cant stand not being with her. now if your friends and you havent known her for a while you dont want to come on too strong so i suggest to tell her you like her and wait to see what she sais. she might like you back. let me know if that helped. :D [ Niinakins's advice column | Ask Niinakins A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Friday August 14 2009, 7:56 pm: Honestly, it depends on each person. Some people really like blunt and honest, but some people aren't too fond of people being so open with their feelings. I would weigh how she feels on it, and then move on from there. I think that if someone liked me I would want them to tell me. I guess not bluntly, but in some sweet kind of way. You could be like, "I was just wondering how you feel about me? because I really like you" You always run the risk of being rejected, but you got to take chances :) Good luck! [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
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