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exboyfriend=friendship?
I dated this one guy for almost a year and felt so trapped and left out of my social circle I just froze up. I totally stopped talking to mark. Finally after about two weeks we talked and cut it off. Its been almost four months and I finally decided to apologize. I tried repeatedly to gert him to meet up with me so we could talk in person about the whole thing and he refused. After a while I just gave in and did it over text. He then told me he forgave me but wanted me to leave him alone for good. He told me I could never fix things and we could never be friends because I hurt him so badly. I see him every sunday at chuch and he won't even look at me. He won't let his friends even be nice to me or let them even say hey. I want to fix this. What should I do? <3 thanks for giving this your time.
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Unfortunately, you'll find that a lot of guys will react the same way upon a breakup. It's nothing against the girl personally in most situations: we just don't really see a need to continue being friends with someone we loved when they don't want us anymore. We know when the ship has sailed and we'd rather focus on finding someone new than spend time with somebody who doesn't want to be with us anymore.
When we were all cavemen, there was little to be gained for a man to spend time with a woman who didn't want to be with him because there wasn't a chance to pass on his genes. Without that, there's no reason.
It sucks, but that's evolutionary psychology for you.
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oh wow.. i had a boyfriend like that too! mine was like bipolar. but anyways, it's obviously that he's stubborn and won't get over it. he'll get over it on his own time. my ex still isn't over it, but then that's his fault for treating me like that. and that's the same for you. i mean, if he doesn't want to be friends... what can you do? you can't really force him right? i would just say leave it alone.. and let him get over it, and he'll be the one coming back to you to apologize.
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Sorry you guys broke up after such a long timex ok im 14 so this may not be the expert advice but here i go ...
firstly i think hes being a jerk :/ the fact that your trying so hard to meet up to talk about it and texting and hes just really not helping is that hes just being immature
I dont think you should bother with him tbh caus he seems to not be a really nice guy to be a "friend"
and tell him either threw text or watever that just because there his friends it dosent mean they cannot be your friends!. If he dosent listen talk to the guys friends, maby he'll listen to them?
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