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confused!!
Ok so my bf has a female friend whom they are close they go to school and work together..the thing is i never met her or anything so when she was texting him about her personal life i would get really mad about it..yes im very jealous...! one day she text him and i told him to tell her not to text you nomore so he simply repiled back and said "please dont text me" she den said ok..The next day i was on the phone with my bf and he said that they are no longer friends becoz i guess she took it to the heart she started igging him at work and all that stuff..the thing is now that my bf is mad at me beoz they are not friend anymore & dey were close...I feel happy coz she put me through alot of arugements with my bf & lots of stress..mind you we been together for more then 4yrz..Now i know they have nothing going on becoz he told me & i trust him. But now he is mad and idk what to do..was it selfish of me? i dont think so becoz i dont want no female texting my man espcially if i dont know her..i know he would get over it, but was i right for doing this im so confused??
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honestly, that wasn't right... but you should feel happy because obviously, you know that he cares about you. but it was wrong to break him and his best friend apart.
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You were wrong to ask your boyyfriend to ditch his female friend. It's not nice, and it's not respectful or trusting for you to make those sorts of demands.
The simplest truth in the universe is this:
If someone wants to cheat, they are going to cheat. If someone doesn't want to cheat, they NEVER will.
Even if you can manage to demand that girls not text your boyfriend, he could still cheat if he wanted too. If he doesn't want to cheat, he never will, no matter how much texting he does.
If you've been with your boyfriend during your teens, this is an important thing to learn: When we are young teenagers it's pretty normal for the girlfriend or boyfriend to be our only really close friend of the opposite sex, but as we get older and mature, we collect more friends of the opposite sex. There is nothing wrong with that. It's completely natural and part of growing up.
If you have a problem with her because you've never met her: Then make the effort to met her and be friendly to her. If you have a problem with her because she flirts too much with your boyfriend THEN you actually have something to talk to your boyfriend about: He should absolutely put an end to flirting or touching. However, if they aren't doing a damn thing wrong, just being friends and talking about thier day and texting, then they have every right too do that.
If you stress out, argue and bully your boyfriend into ditching all his female friends, he's going to get mad at you at a lot. Eventually he'll probably dump you for doing that, and he'll be right to dump you for not trusting him, and for bullying him.
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