ok so im 16/f and i dont masturbate, really i get nothing out of it. im sexually active though and very pleased with my fiancee, however- i dont think ive ever actually climaxed...everyone says its this huge build up then you cum and feel all better- never had that feeling, how do i make myself climax? or how can i tell? cuz if i do i dnt feel it. thanks
A scientific fact, which seriously interests me, goes like so: men, when watching porn, can only watch straight porn (girl + guy) or lesbian porn. When it comes to straight porn, we all know they're really looking at the girl. Women, however, get aroused not by whom they are watching, but the sensuality of what they see and hear.
A lot of women prefer lesbian porn over straight or gay porn simply because the sensuality is so much stronger; the touching and moaning gets them off. I suggest you search online for a sensual porn video or movie, watch a few minutes, turn up your speakers, and wait. After a while, you will definitely start to get turned on. Try masturbation, and see what happens.
I assume the reason you get nothing from masturbation is because you're never aroused when you're alone. Maybe watching some seriously good porn can fix that problem. Hope this helps! [ MilanaLipkind's advice column | Ask MilanaLipkind A Question ]
steph2k10 answered Friday August 14 2009, 12:01 am: well its very difficult, almost IMPOSSIBLE to climax JUST by having sexual intercourse. For most women, they can only orgasm when the clitoris is stimulated. have him rub it with his hand while you are having sex. you will start to feel yourself getting pleased more than ever....if he does it correctly and long enough, you will climax, and you will know when you do.
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