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Am I just being insecure?
17/f. -ok my best friend and I
Were getting mcdonalds and she
Saw her cousin and her cousin was like oh how are we all going to the water park can your friend come and there was a short pause and she was like oh do you want to come? And she
Never mentioned this to me and she does have another best friend and she started making other excuses how she wasn't going to go anyway. I just feel insecure and I know she doesn't have to take me but I don't know what do you think? Oh and she has ditched me in the past..
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wow doesnt really sound like a friend at all. you need to be straight up tell her how you feel and then give her a chance to talk also. Don't fall for the first thing she says bcuz then you will be the friend she can walk all over....... well good luck
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I think you should just ask her straight up if she wants you to go or not. When she asks why you're asking that, mention the reasons you're feeling insecure up above. Tell her to be honest with you and that you won't take it personally if she wants it to just be her and her cousin (that's the only way you'll get the truth out of her)
It's hard to tell if you're just paranoid or not. If she's ditched you in the past, it seems like she might be pushing you away a little. But the only way you'll know for sure is if you're up front and direct about it.
good luck,
Darby(:
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