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i like my guy best friend
So me and this guy met and had a thing for about 1-2 monthes,we didn't date but we "talked" and he said he liked me and i liked him.after a while,he told me he loves me "as a friend" since we started hanging out alot.he knew i still liked him,so he stopped talking to me for like a week .then i had a talk with him and told him "i only liked him as a friend too now".things went back to normal and we started talking alot again ,but as "best friends".
I still like him ! I don't know what to do!
If I hang around him alot ,maybe I'll end up liking him as a friend? I don't know what to do!
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You can't make yourself not like somebody, trust me, I know. I think that hanging out with him will only make you like him more; that's what usually happens in these situations.
Why not try spending some time (more than a week cause a week is nothing) away from him so you can give yourself time to get over him? Try to find a new guy that you like so you can get over this guy. Then, you can start hanging out with him again.
-Laura (17-f)
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Well since he did like you and then he said he loves you as just a friend he could possibly be lying. Some guys are like that.. they try to hide their feelings and such. Maybe you should tell him how you feel. You could tell him that if he doesn't like you that way then you can continue to be friends, It may be easier getting it off of your chest. And maybe hanging with him will make you like him as just a friend but it also could make you like him more. If you are trying to get to where you don't like him make sure not to flirt as well. I think you might want to tell him though before things get more complicated. It's your choice though. I hope this helps.
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Ahhh,pretty tough lol
Ahh,maybe like you said if you keep hanging around him you'll like him as a friend ?
Well i guess just don't make your self too obivous that you like him it might push him away,maybe start talking to other people you cant ry moving on and maybe if you think about it like this "if we end up dating eachother,what if we break up,it'll ruin our whole relationship and friendship we had" i think you should stay as bestfriends i;d love to have a guy as a bestfriend so much easier too talk to when it comes to other guys they understand ! [:
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