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Question Posted Wednesday August 5 2009, 8:27 pm

I have just come from a late night mall in the UK -first about a year ago it was security guards intentionally making their presence felt, Tonight 5/08/09 however as I was shopping in a record store about 09:30pm a number of people intentionally bumped into me- the security guard then shouted something and walked towards the door as i was about to leave. Please note that the patterns of behaviour have not been isolated incidents. I have had this behaviour particularly with the security guards at a famous fashion store in the city centre for months now.
The history of this is based on the fact that I was bullied since 2006 – at my place of work/training
I also experienced bullying in 2008-09.
My family are not being supportive- I simply get an answering machine when i try to call & sometimes the answering machine cuts me off so i’m unable to leave a message.
Would you take negative action against someone without talking to them first?


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jm93 answered Wednesday August 5 2009, 8:48 pm:
Wow. I'm sorry that this bullying has been going on. That is horrible...especially at a work place. The fact that your family doesn't support you is very rude, in my opinion. But, to answer your question, I would talk to someone before taking any negative action again them. If nothing changes, then maybe the negative action can take place. As they say, two wrongs don't make a right. It's up to you thoughh!

As you may of heard..people bully others because of their own low self-esteem.

Here's two links to sites that may help you out a little with the bullying situations:
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Here's three links that can help with unsupportive family members:
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Hope I helped you!
Good luck, and thankyou for the inbox. :)

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