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What do I do now??
Recently, I just found out that the boy I've liked for 2 and a half years doesn't like me. But I don't know if he was lying because everyone is saying he is lying but I'm not so sure. And I've liked him for this long so I think we are meant to be. Please help me!!! I really do love him and I think I'm in love wit him.
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I have found, firsthand, that the best way to get over a guy is to do the following:
Step 1: Have a really good cry.
- When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was super upset (like words cannot describe how bad I felt). But I told myself that I wasn't going to let it flip my entire world upside down. So I let myself have one really good cry, and then I told myself I'm going to start moving on. Which brings me to...
Step 2: Friends = lifesavers.
- Go to the mall and buy yourself something nice (don't over spend, though. Just something small, but nice. Like a new outfit or purse!) Or go see a movie, or out to dinner or something! Don't mope around your house all day doing nothing.
Step 3: Talk about it.
- It feels SO good to let it all out. Sit down with somebody you trust (for me, it was my mom) and just spill your heart out. Again, don't let it ruin your life or impact you too much.
Step 4: Move ON!
- Stop talking to him for a while (you need to give yourself time to get OVER him). Don't stalk his Facebook, spend time with other people, and don't even waste time TALKING about him.
Honestly, it's going to take time, and it's going to be hard, but once you get over him you will feel SO much better. I promise you that this guy is NOT worth wasting all of your time on, and that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Go out and find a new guy that treats you right and is WORTH your time. Forget about this guy ASAP. You're young and have plenty of time for guys. And, as one of my favorite books puts it: The first boy is always the hardest.
Best of luck! :)
-Laura (17-f)
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Well, why not ask him yourself? With men, you need to be straight up and ask! Don't take everyone else's word for it..rumor's spread so easily, so I'm sure no one know's exactly what HE is feeling and/or if he does like you.
I'll give you a link to yahoo that will give you some signs if a guy likes you or not..who knows, maybe this will help you out on knowing if he likes you or not!
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Hope I helped :)!
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ok well i see the problem here. you haven't asked him if he liked you! its that simple. find out straight from the source! good luck :]
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if he tells you he does not like you.. he probably doesn't. i say move on.. flirt with other guys. youll defintlly find out if he likes you then because hell get jealous if your flirting.. then if he does come to you tell him. why did you tell me you didnt like me.
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If he directly told you that he's not into you, you shouldn't hold your breath. It would be nice if he was lying about it, but it's so highly doubtful that he'd lie about liking you if he really did like you. Especially since you have liked him for so two years. Even if you didn't directly tell him that you like him, I'm sure he's figured it out by now. If he felt the same way, he'd admit it.
It's possible that people are trying to tell you that he's lying in order to make you feel better because they think that will help. Of course you know that it won't do any good for them to get your hopes up if he really doesn't like you. If you still think he does like you, you could try directly asking him.
But if he told you he doesn't already, I wouldn't push the issue. You'll just end up getting rejected/getting your feelings hurt.
Good luck,
Darby
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