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my boyfriend and hickeys
so last night my boyfriend of 7 months. would kiss me on the neck then pull away saying me or him would get in trouble if he left me a hickey. i was saying no i wont and quit teasing me, you keep kissing me on the neck then you pull away saying well get in trouble. and he started laughing then he acted like he was going to and he was like no your scared. so i kept saying he was the one that was scared. and he was like no im not wait til your 18 and ill give you one so they cant tell you anything. does that sound like hes just scared or what does that sound like to you?
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I personally don't like hickies on my neck or my boyfriends, I just don't want my bedroom activities posted on my neck for the world to see so my boyfriend started giving me them on my hips or lower ab area. Nobody sees it unless I'm in a bikini, and it rained most of the summer so we rarely went swimming. Its a decent solution if you want one or he wants to but don't want it to be seen. He doesn't sound scared he just honestly sounds like he's looking out for the two of you.
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Well, first off, look at it this way. You've been together for 7 months, now, and this could be a sign of things starting to get serious. I wouldn't rush him- or yourself, into anything. Take it slow, and passion will just take over. That's the best route to go! Now, for the rest of it, if he's telling you he thinks it is a good idea to wait until you become an adult, (in the eyes of the law anyway) then it's obvious he is trying to protect you from getting into trouble. That is a genuine thing for him to do, especially if he is ready. If this relationship is the most progressed either of you have had so far, then yes, it is possible either one of you can be scared. The first anything is always scary, because you can never be too sure how you, or someone else will react. Your best bet is to talk to him about whether or not you are both emotionally prepared and ready for things to go in that direction. Think how good the odds are of you both feeling the same way. If one or both of you are scared, it's probably best to take things slow for the moment. Just remember, the best experience you can get from doing something, is doing it when the time is right.
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Hickeys are no big deal, so you shouldnt be affraid to give them or recieve them if you want to. :-) Maybe hes not sure what a hickey is? Try telling him, or give him one first to make him not nervous. Good luck :-)
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