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bff problems
Um okay I got these friends whO I've known since third grade there's names are Kayla, Tawnae, and Kozi well anyways Kayla is Tawnaes bff Tawnae is Kozi bff and Kozi is Kaylas bff but Kozi and Tawnae is my bffs [so where does that leave me?] anways... since we all went to highschool [were n 10th grade now] we kinda drifted apart like I hate Kayla not hate but I dnt like her and Tawnae is sometymey w| me nOw... anywho Kayla and Tawnae gO to the same school i dnt think there bff's anymore tho and me and Kozi live in they same neighborhood but its still kinda far to get to her house... im still try 2hold onto our frendshyp but I think its only hurtn me like I love these girls [no homo] should I let go or like do you haVe another way? O ps. I've tried to get us all to go to the movies but ppl are always busy or dnt wanna go or dnt wanna see that movie
HELP ME PLEASE !!!!
-Kidd Star
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It's up to you..honestly, you can try to bring them all back together..but in the end it may hurt you because they may get mad at you for forcing them together. However, you can't force people to be friends, which you probably know already. I know how it feels to lose a bunch of friends due to high school! People just forget about the past and their old friends. It's horrible, but it happens. If you want to go back to being friends again like you were, it's probably not going to be an easy process. I wouldn't go to the movies. Go somewhere that you can all talk, in the movies you can't socialize much or anything, which won't solve much. Try inviting them out to somewhere for lunch. You can even invite them over your house. I mean, it's hard when all of them say their busy, or don't feel like it..but, you can try just telling each of them you really want to talk. Make sure you don't let them know each of them is coming over though (only if you want to do that). I'm not saying this will DEFINITELY work out..but, if you want your friends back, anything is worth a try, right? If you do get all of them together, wherever you choose, bring up something that you guys used to do in the past. Good past memories are always something that help people remember the friendship that was once there. Try it! :)
Good luck, hope I helped!
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Sometimes friends get distant, that doesnt mean you have to dislike each other. If you guys can all hang out thats great, maybe if you could even hang out with one of them or two that would be good too. You dont have to let go. As for planning events, you could all meet up at a local park or store or mall if its easier, this way you can socialize more anyway. And dont worry about who is friends with who, try to worry about who you are friends with. There will always be room for you to be friends with them. :-)
good luck!
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