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crazy ex boyfriend
Hey im 18/f and my ex boyfriend is 19/m. This is kind of long but please read! So my ex boyfriend and i dated for about a year and a half. Then he started kinda going crazy on me, long story threateneing to kill me but i know he wouldnt because he isnt that kind of guy. Well my mom got involved and told me i should get a restraining order, i wasnt really all for it but she was my mom and i felt like i couldnt say no. it got to the point where if i wouldnt answer his calls he would stand in the middle of the road and wouldnt let me through. He lives down the road from me as well. Well he ended up in jail and we stopped talking for about 2 months. Then i felt bad and his family was giving me crap about it all so i decided to start talking to him again which i look back now and really regret it. Nobody i know friends/family know about what is going on, and all of his family does know. I am trying to leave this ex boyfriend now and there is still a restraining order and he keeps saying if i leave he'll call the cops and tell them everything, or he'll tell my mom and ruin my life. Sometimes he ever forces me to have sex with him, he says if i dont then he'll do something else. Im so sick of it. I want this all to be over but i dont want to go to the police about this. Every time i resort to the police it gets messy. Like Jury trial and all that crap. Im looking back now and i really regret talking to him again. He keeps saying how he'll change but i know he wont. He even said the other day that he wanted to hit me and slit my throat, then he was like oh im just kidding after he got a reaction out of me. He doesnt have a license anymore either so i have to like give him rides everywhere and if i dont he'll freak out and make me feel bad etc. Can somebody please tell me what to do. :( its stressful and im getting sick of this. I've tried ignoring him and it just doesnt work. Thanks a ton ill rate high!
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Hes crazy. I mean, he really seems pretty mental. You NEED to contact the police, tell them how he is threatening your life, and forcing you have sex with him, you need to tell your parents and police everything. He is abusing you, and you need to get away from him. You don't deserve this, and since you said ignoring him didn't work, you have no other options except to contact the police. Think how bad you'd feel if he hurt you, or your family. Think of your family. I had a friend, who went through a semi-similar problem. She wanted to break up with her boyfriend, but instead of threatening her, he said he would kill himself, he killed himself about last month. It was very shocking, we never knew he would do it. So, seriously, tell your parents right away, he seems pretty crazy.
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Honey i know you don't want to go to the police but that is what you really need to do. It sounds like this guy is dangerous and that's not a good thing. As far as your mom children make mistakes and she'll forgive you but what she will do first is protect you because you are her baby. No matter what you have to protect yourself before its too late. Go to the police and tell them whats happened. If you have witnesses or evidence of abuse then that makes it even better. I hope that this advice helps you and i hope that you stay safe. Your are in my prayers.
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