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I need a guys perspective and girls!
me and my boyfriend (well ex) we've known each other since we were 12 and started goin out when we were 13, (were now 18) but we broke up because we were little and stuff but after 2 years not seeing each other he moved to Pennsylvania, and we contacted each other again because we went there to see them (my parents and his parents are best friends) ok well we started talking again, he has a daughter.. which is no problem for me she's so cute her name is jazmyn she's one and javier is sucha an amazing dad, but the baby mom is crazy and stuff, my boyfriends name is javier.. and javiers parents don't like her because she treated him bad but he stayed with her for 2 years just for the baby, and they broke up because he wasn't happy, and we started going out because we were our first love, and who would of thought we would go out again, we were so happy!!. He's such a good person, the problem is that saturday we were suppose to go to a party and he was coming home to pick me up (oh yeah me and my family moved to PA) and he didn't come home he went straight to the party I was like what the hell, then his mom tells me because his dad got mad cause it was 10pm and still wasn't home so he told javier not to come home, and he gets mad very easily so he went straight there and of course the baby mom was there and he had no place to go and went with her... after that day he contacted me saying babe I'm so sorry is that a situation happened with my dad and stuff but please don't think anything is happening with her, I love u so much and remember that, but how am I not suppose to think anything you know, and he doesn't tell me what happened with his dad, I'm a very understanding person.. anyways its been a week and he's telling me that he's saving money to go get an apartment. but if you were me in this situation, like he's telling me nothings happening and believe me he's a brutally honest person so he wouldn't lie to me.. should I believe him? should I wait for him? i don't know what to do or think, because there's so many reasons why he's staying there (well for now he says) because of his daughter, his dad kicked him out but his mom is so nice and was like come home don't listen to your dad, but his dad is so strict... I just don't know what to do in a situaton like this, I love him so much and I know he loves me too...
I don't know what to do please help!!!
and I apologize that its so long.
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If you believe in true love, and you want to wait for him.. Wait for him. If you don't want to wait, maybe see what else the world has to offer you, go out and see what else there is. You're so young, and there is no reason to want to be tied down. If he loves you and is an honest person, he's probable not sleeping with the babys mama, he's probable just staying there,because it's a place to stay with out listening to his dad yell, and that way he's there for his little girl. Children are very important to a good man. So just give it time, and maybe it'll all work out for the best... But if you two arn't together, why not see what else is out there?
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