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Am I out of line?
Kay, so my boyfriend openly talks about girls he thinks are hot, and it sort of makes me feel awkward.
I wouldn't mind if he put it another way (e.g. 'I think *this girl* is pretty' or 'I think this girl is attractive) but he says it along the lines of "*THIS GIRL* IS SO GOD DAMN HOT" and it makes me feel awkward. He'll just bring it up too when it had nothing to do with the conversation...
e.g. I mentioned to him how I was always scared to bring home boyfriends because of my sister's good looks. He then said something along the lines of 'Oh she sounds hot' when he asked for a description of her. He also randomly went on about how "god damn hot" his friend's sister is... and just before I mentioned I lost my keys and he went on about how Alicia Keys is 'hot'...
Am I being out of line? I don't mind if he thinks other girls are attractive, just because he's with me doesn't mean feelings for others change. But I think he could either just discuss it with friends, or word it better when discussing it with me.
I'm sort of sensitive to this stuff, because my ex boyfriend did this, but ten times worse (he would constantly bring how much he wanted sex with other girls and that sort of stuff into it as well) so I feel as if I may be scarred from that experience, but it's taught me to deal with this stuff early on.
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Your boyfriend is an immature child.
An adult would not tolerate his inability or unwillingness to control himself. Its not "a cool part of his personality that he just can't help but it doesn't matter because its charming" or whatever justifications have let you not walk this long.
Why are you tolerating this?
Am I completely out of touch, do kids think that its normal for a guy to talk to a girl he is dating about how hot everyone but she is? Is this widespread or something?
Tell the guy that you don't date children, and his constant outbursts are childlike. Follow through, and don't date guys that act this way.
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