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proving to someone that you really love them
I have this boyfriend and we have been together for 1 year and 5 months...Wright now we are fighting about somethis crazy...I told him I love him and he told me to prove it, and I dont know how...Can u PLEASE HELP ME????
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Don't you hate when guys say, "prove it." Because it's like, "hey, why don't YOU prove it also." I mean, you shouldn't have to prove that you love someone, loving someone isn't about proving anything, it's about KNOWING in your heart that whether you're in a fight or not, you love eachother and just that fact keeps you guys together. yuh know ? However, it would help a little bit if i knew what the fight was about, but i can work with what i got :]
Try calling him, even if he sends you right to voicemail, leave him a message, a long message saying that you care about him. Then just keep aologizing, usually guys don't get mad over nothing, it's us girls who are known to overreact more than the guy in the relationship, so apologizing profusely is key. Maybe you could make him a mixtape of all songs he likes or that describes the way you feel about him and one that apologizes, or funny songs, a mixture of all of those, and then give it to him. It will show that you really thought about it and care about him to make something meanigful liek that. then make the cover a picture of you two or something else that's meaningful. He'll love it, trust me. And since you guys have been going out for so long, it's , most likely just a "rough patch" or "phase" sometimes people just need space and some time to cool off. But if none of that helps, tell him that you shouldnt have to prove anything because you love him and that should be enough and that if he doesn't believe you, than he's the one who needs to prove it. Also.. you could make him cookies or something. guys love food :]
Good luck ! Hope I helped, if you need anything else, help with anything at all, feel free to inbox me. It'll be alright, don't sweat over it too much :] xxo.
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