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im so confused
15/f
Okay so there is this guy that I've been talking to for about 3 weeks, he was a senior and he just graduated. I know that our relationship means nothing because I know he just wants to use me for my body and doesnt care about me..and i do admit i sent pictures and videos but only after we had an entire trust conversation, well it was basically me saying if you show these to people, I will make your life hell, and things like that. i also didnt really think much of it because all of his friends are seniors who graduated so i think im okay. He also said he deletes them after evertime i send them..he used to ask me everyday for something different because he said since he deletes them he needs something to jerk off to and then he deletes it. i dont know if i believe it..but whatever.
so yesterday, i was at my friends house, and he was asking for us video chat with him in our bra and panties. i told my friend and she thought it would be fun so we both said we would. but she kind of changed her mind and didnt want anything to do with it because she thinks, from what ive told her about him, that he is a douchebag and an asshole. So i just did it by myself while she was in a different room. At first it was kind of awkward because ive only seen him once..but then it was okay. although it was sort of weird because at first he was pretending that he didnt have a microphone and was typingg everything to me instead of saying it and typing me what he wanted me to do. but then he was talking and i could hear him so i dont know what thats about..anyways, at one point he told me to play with my boobs and i just said, okay :] so i started to and then as soon as i did he started laughing and i didnt really get why so i just kept doing it and then he told me he was jerking off and then showed me and was asking me stuff, typing by the way, but i would talk because..thats normal..haha so he asked me a question and i was like, yyeahh and then he mocked me and said exactly what i said in the same tone. like are you serious? grow the hell up. and why was he making fun of me like that? i wasnt being weird..i was being normal..it wasnt supposed to be funny..and then he said something so i said, mmhmm and then he mocked me and smiled and said "mmhhmmmm" like laughing..what the hell is so funny about that. and then towards the end i would keep asking, anything else? and then after telling me what to do a bunch of times he goes, you really like doing things dont you? and i was like, nah im just bored haha and he was laughing..then he was like, jump up and down and run in circles. and i was like, ..you want me to jump up and down and run in circles..? and he was smiling and said yup so then i was about to get up and do it because i guess i didnt think about it too much..then i sat down and was like okay your gonna laugh at me so no.
doesnt it sound like this whole thing was a joke to him? he was laughing at me and mocked me at some points..i just dont get it because he DOES wanna hang out with me because why else would he come pick me up tuesday? [we almost hung out but my mom saw that i got into a car with some random guy and she called me and yelled at me so i had to go home] and also i dont get it because everytime were suppposed to hang out, one time his excuse was, i have to go to my grandmas for dinner, or, i dont feel good..what the hell like i dont get it, because he always talks about wanting to fuck me and do stuff with me..like he must have some sort of intrest because i got him hard during the video and stuff so i just dont get it..we ALMOST hung out..why doesnt he want to anymore?? am i joke..i dont know what to think or do..
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Well, being a guy, I probably have a few ideas you might want to hear... I mean, I would never do this to someone in the first place, but I would probably be able to guess at a few possibilities.
1) Okay, I HIGHLY doubt this is it because of a few things you've said, but it's worth hearing. He could actually be kind of nervous for some reason, a fear of actually doing anything in person.
2) Maybe it's the age difference. Maybe he realized that doing anything with you is actually a crime.
3) This is one of the ones I would assume it probably is. Maybe he's just an ass. It's possible he's just doing this to you to mess with you. It could all just be a joke to him.
4) This is another one of the major possibilities. Maybe he has a girlfriend, and he doesn't want to do anything with you and have her find out.
So here's my advice on the situation. Stop talking to him. He's been an ass to you, and he's too old for you anyway. He doesn't care about you, like you said he didn't, and he probably never will. I'm pretty close to your age, and I'd feel pretty weird doing anything with someone if there was that much of an age difference.
You don't have to listen to me, but I know a lot of guys who are total assholes the one you just described.
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