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he can't cum...
i'm going to get straight to the point, so my boyfriend and i had sex for the second time. and the thing is... i was kind of expecting the sex to be about 45 minutes. but the sex went on for about 2 hours, and he couldn't cum! i think it's kind of weird, if he doesn't know if he cummed or not.. because after he pulled it out, he was still hard. so we kept having sex until he did cum. he said he was satisfied... but he doesn't know why he can't cum. he pre-cums but he didn't really exactly go all the way. so he was hard throughout the whole time, and when we stopped... he said he think he did.. but why is he still hard? O_o help?
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Is he on any medication? If he is that may be the problem. A lot of prescription medicine has sexual side-effects that effect erections, lubrication, wetness in females and ejaculation in males.
It could also be psychological. He may feel pressure that he's putting on himself to satisfy you etc. He may also be fearful of getting you pregnant, pain and or overwhelmed. Talk to him about medication and what's happening. He may need to see a doctor. I doubt it's a physical problem.
As far as ejaculating goes there's no mistaking when it has happened as he would surely feel that sensation as would his partner. Be patient with him though. 2 hours however is a bit much to endure.
Also, it's a myth that guys ejaculate every single time too. The problem is either in his head or medication most likely.
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