well lets just say that im 14 and lost my virginity to a guy who left me right after we had sex because i was stupid enough to think he was the one.
But anyways,
i got fingered by him about 4-6 times and i dont feel anything no pain no pleasure is that weird?
and ive only had sex twice so it's still suppost to hurt the second time around right?
Im sorry to hear that the slezebag used you like that it was wrong and unfair and you deserve heaps better,its good to see though that you realised the mistake and will know for future reference.
no its not weird everyone is different and in fact im the same i dont feel pain or pleasure thats just me you just have to work out whats right and feels good for you.
not nessecarily again this depends on the person,some girls dont feel any pain the first time some do,some feel it the first time and not the second.
sex takes a little getting used to so its normal for it to still be a little uncomfortable the second time round until you become like looser.
hope I helped =]
<3
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