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NEW ME??
hey. i think i need a good advice on this. I've suddenly stopped any contact or communication with my friends except for my best bud. I started to get interested with high-end fashion.. I have this "i don't care what you may think" attitude. Before, i was this nice girl who never dared to lose contact or be sweet with my friends, i was so concervative that i never had a taste for heels or skirts... but i think i got tired and i suddenly wanted to be left alone and do things my way. I had this friend who was so overly-dramatic, she's a great pal but i suddenly told her to just FORGET ABOUT ME and move on.. The boys who were eyeing me and who i constantly texted, now i just ignore them..
What's got into me? Really, why the sudden change of my persona?? I'm really confused..
I don't want to be left alone but why do i feel this??
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You are burn out and want some space from everything. The more they ask what's wrong, the more you get frustrated. This is completely normal at your age. My grandmother died from brain cancer my senor year of high school and I became depressed. I did not want to talk to anyone but to be just left alone. My personality changed and so did my taste in clothes, makeup, etc. The ony thing that worked was getting my space from everything. I decided to bury myself into writing so that I could get my frustrations out in a healthy way and on my own. At the age of 18, you start to wander off because you want to find yourself and what you want to do for the rest of your life. Unfortunately your friends nor your family can help you with that decision. You may know what you want to do but you don't know how you will get there and how you will become successful when you graduate. Also, you may feel threatened because if you have to move, you would have to say goodbye. Nothing is more painful than goodbye so you push them away so you don't have to.
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Teenage crisis, perhaps?
I'm not sure. If you are upset you've stopped talking to all of your friends, maybe let them know that something's changed about you and you're trying to figure it out, and that you're sorry about not talking to them.
If you don't want to talk to them, then I guess there's really no advice to give other than to just keep on doing what you're doing.
--Jack
(17/m)
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