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My life is miserable and I'm pathetic..
Hi..well, it all started with a Truth or dare game. We were playing and my friends made me kiss this guy who likes me, GF, and my best friend made me touch his crotch. My boyfriend found out about it and got mad. But until now, he is never letting go of the situation, and it annoys me and hurts me, and I can't love someone who is going to always bring it up . I knew it was a mistake at the time, but I was lost and weak. We are going to argue everyday. And next year, he won't be in my school which completely completely upsets me.
i begged him not to go, yet he chose to go. he broke my heart long before i broke his. i just didn't want to tell him. i think it's unreasonable. But I know going to another country to study is good for him and his future, so I don't want him to know.i don't know what to do anymore. i did all those horrible stuff
because i was so upset. and now i've lost my boyyfriend and best friend, and he's not even answering his phone. and my parents are acting responsible. my life is horrible.i don't think i know how to love any person.i don't think i can learn to love anyone except him. Can anyone give me some advice please?
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Talk to him.
If you apologize once more, and say something other than just "I'm really sorry", and you leave it at that, maybe he'll forgive you.
But, know that he has every right to be mad. EVERY RIGHT. You cheated on him, plain and simple. I don't care if it was a dare or not, you CHEATED. Just think how you'd feel if he did that to you? And don't say you wouldn't be upset, because anyone would be.
"He broke my heart long before i broke his," is what you say, and honestly, I think you are trying to find an excuse to justify your actions. It doesn't matter who broke whose heart first- what matters is that YOU broke HIS by CHEATING on him.
Just remember that.
Sorry, I don't mean to sound rude, but it had to be said.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Well, what is done is done. If he can't forgive, although it's difficult, if he can't forgive you and move on, and believe you that you are honestly regretting the situation, which seems you do.. If he can't do those things then, is he really worth hurting over and fighting for? He's barely fighting to keep you, and you're fighting to stay. What's the point of a relationship then? It has to be a two-way thing, yes, you did something wrong and you acknowledge it, and now HE has to acknowledge that you know it was wrong and you're never going to do it again, and so he should forgive you, because YOU are worth it! THAT would show the relationship is worth saving and keeping. Plus he's leaving soon, so get your relationship on track, whether it is on or off.. Know where it is, so you can move on too, if that is where it ends up.
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you chose a stupid truth or dare game over your relationship?
how unfair is that?
Can you really blame him for not answering your calls,
I mean how would you feel if he kissed a girl and then had to touch her boobs or something.
Truth or Dare doesnt mean anything anyway!
Doesn't matter if you're angry or not, you don't do that to someone you lov
Anyway, I am not here to lecture you and tell you stuff you already know.
It ended on a bad note and that's why it feels to miserable...
He's leaving now, all good things must come to an end I'm afraid.
Let him leave, he is going on to bigger and better things.
If you can, keep calling, text, turn up at his door step - and just apologize. You need to get it sorted so your friendship is civil and healthy between you two. You will feel so much better, because even though he will of gone - you guys would have put it behind you peacefully.
You may have feelings for him, that is natural. Things like that don't just go away - and I'm sure that goes for him too, he probably just lacks faith and respect in you now. Both of you are probably feeling miserable because it went down in a bad way
When he is gone, which he should go, you dont HAVE to get over him just yet - what's the rush?? Slowly in time I am sure, the feelings will go - because he will so far away, you wont see him enough to think about him.
Just surround yourself with good friends at the moment, and dont get into relationships until you know you're over him.
If you want more prespective, ask a good loyal friend, they will be able to see two sides of the story, wheras on here - we advice givers only get to see one.
Make the effort, go out your way and just try to find, apologise him, and wish him good luck
Hope I Helped,
Sage :)
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