so i have a boyfriend and he is 19, i am 16. however, i turn 17 in august and he turns 20 in october. we are really involved mentally and somewhat physically. i want to take it farther but he always asks me many times if its okay and i understand where he's coming from because it's technically illegal...But when i'm 17 do you think that he will change and alls he'll want is sex? he's pretty respectful right now but people change and things go wrong and everything so i dont really know what to expect...I guess i have to wait and see but does anyone know anyone else like this? & do you think he'll just want sex after i turn 17?
thanks in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VeNzUeLa answered Wednesday June 10 2009, 7:38 am: Honestly, you will never know until the time comes. My opinion would be, if he's so respectful now, live in the now and stay with him. When you do turn 17 and he becomes less respectful and all about sex, then.. THEN, you can decide to leave him or whatever you decide then. Live for the now, not the later because regret is something. You know him better, so you make your decision and see how it works out. If it doesn't work out nicely, it's ok, you learned from it and you become a stronger person!
advice123 answered Tuesday June 9 2009, 7:34 pm: it all depends on how often he asks you. if you catch him asking you often, then he just wants your body. & remember, he cant force you into it. if he says you gotta have sex with him...dont be afraid to leave the guy cuz hes not worth it [ advice123's advice column | Ask advice123 A Question ]
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