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How do I make up with my friend?
so me and my friends are playing tag and me and lindsay (friend) do rock paper scissor to see whoes it. i lose and i say that we were supposed to do 2 out of 3. she says only 1 round. so im ticked off. then helen (other friend) had a chance to tag lindsay but tagged me instead. (purpose) so now im mad. then i tag melissa(other friend: mel) and she tags helen. then helen tags me again while she had the chance to tag mel. Now i'm really mad and i storm off without a word. it was all on a friday and now its the weekend and ive never had a fight that long. this time im determined not to say sorry first like i used to. what should i do? im so confused and sad. when i consideer just not being friends anymore, i remember all the good times we had and i cry. also i don't know who im mad at really, linds or helen. oh, please help me.
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Ok.I think you need to not worry so much about this, Its not something that would generally ruin friendships. I understand why you are mad, I think you need to talk to your friends about it and explain why you are mad and why you left. And tell them that them "ganging" up on you is not on. I'm not saying that you should apologize. I just think you should to talk to them about it calmly and explain how you are feeling to them.
Also I think that this is something minor and easily sorted so I don't see why you guys still cant be friends. But to me it seems that you and Helen may have an issue you need to sort out cause it seems like she was the one trying to anger you. I think Lindsay just really didn't want to be it.
Just in case though, if you guys do stop being friends, I just want you to know that you will make new friends. And sometimes the new friends are way better than the old friends. And its ok to remember the good times with your friends but don't let those keep you in a friendship you aren't happy in because you will have many more good times with new people, being in a friendship you aren't happy in is worst than not being friends with those people and having to move on.
But just talk to them and explain it and try not to let it bother you so much.
I hope it all works out! If you need anymore help let me know.
Goodluck!
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