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How do I know he means it?
15/f
So my current boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and he is so sweet and amazing. He always tells me he loves me, and I tell him I love him as well (because I do) but the other day he came over to my house and gave me a beautiful silver ring with a turquoise stone. He told me that it was a promise ring that we were going to be together forever and get married one day. But sometimes people say that and don't really mean it. How do I know he really really means it. Because I love him so much and I do want to marry him when I grow up. I have dated other guys and he is the only one who makes me feel this way. I just want to know if I am going to end up getting my heart broken. Does he really mean he wants to be with me?
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youre fifteen years old. enough said.
[no one can make a promise like that.. especially when youre young and vulnerable]
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you're fifteen. realize that, and take it into account. sure, he may now, but how long will it be until you guys start clashing over stupid shit. fairy tales are the exception to the rule(I learned this from a chick flick I watched last night), so go ahead with your merry little plans, it may work out, but he just sounds like a great first husband. just think of him as your training wheels into the clusterfuck that is adult life. and what about him? has he been with other girls before? my dad told me once that you shouldn't marry the first girl you have sex with, thank god I took that to heart, because then I'd be marrying a jamacain prostitute. I digress, enjoy your relationship with him, and if it turns out okay in a few more years, then have fun.
-gunner
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Usually any guy that gives a girl a promise ring means business, but it doesn't always turn out that way.
I think that if you really love your boyfriend & know for sure that he loves you, this wouldn't be something you'd question. He probably more than likely is serious about this decision. Besides, no guy gives a girl a ring for no reason.
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I think he is the real deal. Of course anything can happen, but I think he truly means it.
I had a guy get me a promise ring and he said the same things to me, and he was a true jerk...
I already knew this, but I decided to trust him anyway. What I'm trying to say is, while some guys do mean it at the time, sometimes they have a change of heart. Hopefully this won't happen. He seems like a great guy, don't let him go. lol
20/F
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