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want to be a stripper


Question Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 4:02 pm

i dont really know why but for some reason i want to be a stripper when im a little older
im 15. i know its bad but i just really like boy attention..is something wrong with me


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Ignatz answered Monday June 8 2009, 4:55 pm:
What Razhie said. Seriously. For an idea of the working conditions you could expect as a stripper, check here: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) These are the rules for an upscale club. More down-market clubs would ostensibly be worse places to work. The hours are long, the customers can get out of hand, and the club owners are primarily focused on getting as much money out of you as possible. (Good luck getting health insurance.)

If you're still interested in performing to an audience (and getting attention), you might want to consider belly dance or burlesque.

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Razhie answered Sunday May 31 2009, 4:18 pm:
Nopes.

Lots of people like attention.
However, I'd SERIOUSLY recommend you find something else you'd like to do professionally.

Obviously, being a stripper gives you a VERY short working life. You really only have from 18 (if 18 is the legal age to dance in your state) to maybe 30 (if you take REALLY good care of yourself and get lucky with your looks).

So that isn't long enough to really make it a career. Later in life you will have to have other skills to fall back on.

Also, as I'm sure you can imagine, being a stripper could limit your options. Besides being judged by a lot of people, you'll find it pretty difficult to every work in a whole bunch of fields afterwards. It limits to people who can, or are willing to be your friends, and it will probably upset your family. The strippers I know, even the really upscale-burlesque ones also have a damn hard time dating.

You can always take poll dancing classes for fun when you are a bit older! It's perfectly cool and fun to use some of those tricks and games in your relationship, but it's important to know two things about stripping:
One, it's a short-term thing; you will need to have other skills in this world to survive and thrive. It’s not a lifetime profession.
Two, it's not always seen in a good light. Stripping will limit the other things you can do in life and will limit your social life a lot.

There is of course also the danger, and the drugs and all of that. Some places are worse than others. A club is often not a great work environment.

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