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Spice up the love life!


Question Posted Thursday May 28 2009, 5:21 pm

I am a 20 year old female. me and my husband have been together (consistently)for about 2 years we have been married about 5 months. we have a great marriage we love each other dearly but sex life has not been the greatest. we do some kinky stuff and have tried some toys which works but were looking for something different. does anyone know anything really kinky or sexy or different we can do to spice it up? please help!

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DearAbby92 answered Thursday May 28 2009, 9:07 pm:
Check out cosmopolitan, online or the magazine. Its practically devoted to sex. Different positions can deffinitely add interest and excitement to your sex life.

I read that building up to it can really make it more satisfying. Tell him everything you want to do together before he leaves for work, and then send him a dirty text while hes away. Try extending foreplay and giving into fantasies; we all have them. Find out what his is (french maid, nurse, teacher, cheerleader?) and surprise him. It's fun to dress up and act the part, and he'll love it. Also, a change of scenery can really make you feel wild. Be risky and do it somewhere you might get caught, or move it from the bedroom. He'll feel like you just cant resist him if you have to stop in the kitchen because you can't even make it to the bed room.

I found a book about kama sutra in my parents room (ew, I know) but it's been used for hundreds of years, so they must have something interesting in there. *shudder*

Anyway, have fun and don't be afraid to shake it up!

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