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Well, I was gone 2 days and she called me, and told me she loved me and that she wanted to work things out. She said she realized that she never really tried to make it work the first time. I am still in Chicago, and trying to decide when I should go home. I am still really worried, because I need her to prove to me that she loves me and is ready to move foward. I think and hope that me leaving finally made her come to her senses. I know that it would probably be best if we just started over. I am going to have a very hard time getting the thoughts of them 2 together out of my head. I know it will be uncomfortable, but I want more than anything to make it work. Do you have any advice on how to make the recovery go faster/smoother? The last thing I want is to lose her again. I know that I can never again bring it up and throw it in her face. But what about her. What should she do to move foward? Thanks again and I will continue to keep you updated.
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Hi, nice hearing from you. I knew that she would come to her senses once you left. I think she now realizes that you mean what you say. She doesn't want to loose you, and I think she realizes that you are a good man. You need to ask her if she is ready to put all of this behind her and start fresh, or does she still need more time to herself. Let her kow that you are not prepared to come back to a home where you do not feel loved and appreciated, or where you feel that you both are living seperate lives. Let her know that you love her and want to be with her, but at the same time you want her to love you. Be sure to also let her know that you are willing to put the past behind you and move forward, is she willing to do the same. I think everything is going to be fine between the both of you. She is moving in the right direction and I must say that she is doing it rather quickly. I thought it would have been at least a week before she came t her senses, guess she really misses you. HAHA. Don't be afraid, you did the right thing.
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