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ok so me and my boyfriend are always messing around and he gets hard really quickly all the time. so last week we decided to go further and have sex. but wen we were about to he just couldn't get hard. it wasn't that he just wasn't in the mood because he really wanted to but for some reason at this time it didn't work. this happened twice. i tried jacking him off and oral sex but he still couldn't get hard. what could be the reason that he can't get hard whenever we try to have sex?
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You know how sometimes you'll go into a test knowing everything, but as soon as you walk in the door you can't seem to remember how to spell your name? That's performance anxiety.
He is obviously fully functional, so this is just a case of him being nervous. Maybe he's not ready on a subconscious level to have sex. Maybe he's worried about what you'll think. There are a lot of things that could worry him to the point where he cannot achieve an erection.
To overcome this, stop putting pressure on him to get hard. Do what you normally do. Pretend you aren't going to have sex. Take it slow and easy.
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