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I FEEL HORRIBLE. FML.
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Whoa! That was one long rant! I can really sense your frustration and I'm sure it's hard for you right now- as it is for all teens. (Trust me even the ones you think having everything going for them have pains too)...
Anway- listen, you've got to be strong and take the reigns here. You're letting your life run YOU instead of you running your life!
You're waiting for something to happen or 'hoping' it will happen when you need to go out and MAKE things happen.
I know that sounds easier than it is but you can do it! Find some other interests. There have to be other things that you like besides volleyball and music. What other kinds of hobbies can you do? Are there any clubs at school or in your town that interest you? If not, you can start one of your own.
How about classes- like sports, art, intruments, anything?!!
There has to be something! Everyone has got their own unique talents and interests. You just need to find yours and get out there- get involved!
I KNOW that it is hard. Us older people have all been there and most of us would never want to go back. You're at an age when you're trying to find out who you are, a lot is changing and you're unsure of yourself. That's normal.
But you need some confidence. Find some things that you like and you are good at. If one thing doesn't work out, just laugh it off and try something else. But don't give up! There's something for everyone. You'll find it. I promise. Keep your head up. And just get out there and do things, talk to people.
If they act like a jerk to you then that's THEIR problem. If they don't, well, see if you have something in common and you just might have a new friend.
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