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Question Posted Thursday May 21 2009, 1:12 pm

what is everything that happens to a female when she has an orgasm? and when does she 'cum' as opposed to when does she 'get wet'? what is the main difference and how can i know the difference? and can a girl cum by fingering? or does she just get wet?

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blwinteler answered Friday May 22 2009, 1:48 am:
When I am aroused, I am very definitely wet. When I cum, it is obvious. The other person to answer so far mentioned vaginal spasms. That is one thing that happens. For me, I "quake." My whole body shakes and I'm fairly vocal about it. Also, I end up not just wet, but dripping.
Wow, that was more descriptive than I originally intended to be. I hope it doesn't get booted. Really, it is just to show that every woman is different. In fact, even in just one woman, each orgasm may be different. But you will know.
And yes, a girl can cum by fingering. You just have to find the right spot (the clit, and the g-spot are typical trigger points, and no they are not the same).
If you are concerned you won't know the difference, you can be sure she will know. Don't be shy. Ask her to tell you. But I don't think you will need her to.

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aliarrogancexx answered Thursday May 21 2009, 1:47 pm:
most girls cant come just by fingering; you have to rub the clit. nothing really happens when a girl has an orgasm, compared to guys ejaculating. few girls do that though. mostly its just like...intense vaginal spasms that feel really good. youll be able to know when she comes because the vagina contracts and spasms and her breathing will increase. alot. if shes not to shy shell also make noises; maybe loud, maybe soft. it depends. getting wet is much different that having an orgasm. getting "wet" is when the vagina just excretes a natural slick lube. coming is when she actually has an orgasm. girls get wet when theyre aroused, and come when either you "finger" them, have sex, or masturbation. 17/f

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