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Boyfriend going away
19/f
Three months ago I met an amazing guy and we ended up together. Hhe is going travelling around the US with his family in a few months. I really really like this guy, I'm his first gf and he really likes me too but im scared he will do the 'sensible' thing and break up with me when he goes. What am i going to do?
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Try not to jump to conclusions so quickly. You never know. You might mean a WHOLE lot more to him than you think. And it is your right, as a person and partner in the relationship to know what the future is and where it is going to head when he goes on this family holiday. So don't worry about scaring him, he should be mature enough to understand, understand in both ways, one; the fact that you deserve to know because you're curious, and also because the whole point of a relationship is to be at ease with each other and be comfortable enough to talk about things that bother you or you are curious about. Talk to him and ask him about it, just as a curious friendly thing. It shouldn't get 'scary' or anything negative, it is simply a discussion.
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You're right and it's only been 3 months.. so if you really like him, don't scare him off! You two have been hanging out and having fun and going with the flow.. so do not push him away by going a little nuts and getting upset about it. I'm sure he likes you just as much, but guys get scared so easily early in a relationship.
IF he does break up with you before he leaves, take it calmly and react with dignity. Say you understand and that hopefully when he comes back, things could change or you guys could work something out and leave it open to possibilities. If you cry or flip out, he will NOT want to call you when he gets back, but if you react sweetly, he'll think "This girl is really cool, she's not going crazy on me."
IF he does not break up with you, and just leaves on the same terms you guys are on now, tell him to give you a call when he's not busy and maybe send some postcards. Tell him you'll miss him and to have fun. He'll notice that you're not being clingy and just genuine and sweet. When he comes back, he'll deff want to come see the girl that treated him respectfully!
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