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i have always dated males. i have always found males attracted. i started talking to my friend and she use to date males but then started dating females. so we were talking and she was saying something about an "exception." a girl can be totally straight but she will met a girl who is funny, smart, fun to be around and etc and may like her. is that possible? and i talk to this girl who is also my friend, everyday now throughout the day, she is funny, smart and all that stuff but i dont know if i could see myself being with her or her being my exception because i dont understand that. any advice would help.
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I don't think there Are ANY exceptions, your either straight or gay.
Bisexual, i guess is possible, But Which ever one you usually are more attracted to is what you are. Don't turn into something your not sure about, I havent ever heard of 'exceptions' with being straight or gay. If you can't see yourself with a girl, don't go for it.
Now, if you want to look at it with a hormonal twist...
You can get turned on by either a boy or girl.. Expecially when you are going through puberty, and your hormones are going crazy. And that may be wht your friend is going through.
Hope that helped a little bit =) Idk what else to tell you.
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I've never heard of 'exceptions' to being straight. If you are a girl and you like a girl enough to date and be sexual with her, that makes you bisexual. If a guy dated girls his whole life, then fell in love with another guy, people would say that he's bisexual, not that he met his 'exception.'
You also said that your friend used to date males, then she started dating femaleS. If it's multiple girls, that's more than one exception. As far as this girl who is your friend now, you need to ask yourself some questions. Can you see yourself kissing her/being sexually romantic with her? Talking to her all night on the phone and flirting with her? Can you see yourself holding her hand and just cuddling with her? Can you see yourself opening up to her and falling in love with her the way you could a man? If you answer yes to these things, I would say you're probably bisexual.
Darby(:
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