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So like when me and this one guy have sex i get like really nervose and i start thinking to much is it a good thing to think to much when your having sex? but like if am making out with a different guys nothings there. I think i may like this guy or is it that since his the first person i had sex with. but his a really big man whore and i don't really know what to do cause his such a sweet talker and idk if he likes me for me or just us having sex. Should i talk to him or just blow it off like its nothing
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It's normal to be nervous when you're having sex. Making out isn't nearly the same thing as actually having sex. I'm sure you're thinking so much because this is the first person you've been with. Typically you wouldn't want to think a lot when you're having sex with someone because it kinda takes you out of the moment, ya know?
Just try to let yourself relax and get comfortable. If you keep having sex and find that you cannot relax yourself, it could mean that you're not really comfortable being that close to this boy. But nerves, they'll happen when you're just now starting to have sex for the first time. Just try to take a deep breath and let yourself loosen up.
Secondly, you definitely do not need to blow this off like it's nothing. It is something. If he's a manwhore, you're not dating, and you are having sex; it's important that you discuss this with him. Tell him that you are concerned with his reputation and that you don't want to be just another number or just another girl to him.
Make sure you look for the warning signs of someone that is using you only for sex. Some signs are; he ignores you at any time, flirts with a bunch of other girls, doesn't want to hang out unless sex is going to be involved, or he doesn't confide in you his feelings and won't let you do the same. If you're noticing these things and you really like this boy, get out now.
Hope this helps(:
Darby
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