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I don't know, what to think about my best-friend anymore?
Hi my name is Abby. I am a senior in high school at age 17 yrs. and my best buddy is one age older than me and at the same grade level. I have known her for about 3 years and during time we have become close friends,even with each other's family.When she needs help I am there just like any good friend and I know it's the same for her, but lately she has been acting weird. She asked my little cousins if they can record by camera, what we were about to do?And out of nowhere she kissed me, but I remember that she's been wanting to do that but just for "fun"in front of people. I really got freaked out, because she has a boyfriend,I'm a girl, and I'm into guys.Then she grabs me and then laughs about it like if I enjoy "playing" like that. Then after a week later we hang out again and we went to the park with my cousin's. I imagine she likes kids,because she's always playing around with them. I see her coming towards me and sits on top of me,when I was sitting on the grass. She begans to slap me,bitting my neck, and than when my cousins were pushing her to get off. She suddenly kissed me a couple of times and then she puts her tongue on my mouth and that was disturbing. One of our friends came by and did it the same thing again and this time I bite her tongue as a sign to "quite it"!Then later that day she turn on the water hose and it was on my side,so I got wet.When I was just sitting on the grass.I got so mad, but I didn't do anything,so I kept it all inside.Then,her brother made it worse he got a bucket and wet me on purpose calling me a "whore"! I got so angry and I started beating him up!She pushed me and slapped me.I didn't want to hit her, because I care for her alot and we always treat each other like if we were sisters, and I ended up crying.She is very exposing to our friends of her body and she enjoys torturing me by touching me,kissing me,and then getting mad about the dumbest things.I know I don't have the blame for her actions and it's not the first time, either! I always feel bad when,we get in a fight,because of her and I end up apologizing. Once I got really mad and she asked me for forgiveness, but the thing is that it's always the same thing! I don't understand her actions and one day she asked me about "us"and I need to wait for the right time for her to tell me, but then she said she was jocking! I don't really get her? Sometimes I think that she might be Bi sexual or she just has "to much" fun, or maybe it might be the Bi polar thing...yeah I think I should of put that on the beginning, but I don't thing that's the reason though,I mean she takes medication or is it?I really don't know what to do at this stage? I'm a bit confuse and I really need advise from someone that can help me? If this is a bit to long I apologize!
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Hmm... so she does take medication? I don't know if it's a mental illness.. because at 17 or 18 years old, being wild and "playing" around is normal and what you do. If she is physically or emotionally HURTING you, that's when the friendship needs to be put into check and is in trouble. She could be bi-sexual or a lesbian, because she is kissing you alot and the biting and hitting is alot of aggression she has built inside. She could be really angry at herself for being attracted to girls, and she might be taking it out on you. The bottom line is that she needs you. You seem like a very good friend to her and you're stable. She needs someone stable to be there for her no matter what! Remind her that she can always talk to you about anything. If she hurts you and makes you cry, make sure she knows that you don't do that to a best friend. I doubt she's bi polar though, she's just a bit wild and crazy.
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