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I’m 24/f, met this guy online, and thought we really hit it off. Dating pretty often for a few weeks, texted almost every day. Things seemed to be going well. Then he got swamped with work and the contact sort of stopped. I wasn’t worried at first, but the second week of me texting him, and getting a really short long-delayed reply without any mention of meeting or missing me or anything like that made me pretty gloomy, so I texted him and asked him if he was interested in seeing me again, because I was getting the impression he wasn’t.
No response to that for over 24 hours, so I called him and left a message where I told him I didn’t want to jump to assumptions, but I was pretty sure that I wasn’t going to hear from him again, which was sad. I told him I hoped he was okay and wished him good luck...
So my questions are... Was what I did right? I’m really disappointed, but I can’t imagine a good explanation for his silence and I don’t think I over-reacted. I think I was rational and honest, but I’d like a guy’s perspective.
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Two weeks of almost no contact is purposeful. He's a dick, I generally hate people who hide from a situation they helped create and wait for it to fizzle out.
As a guy, I can tell you that if I like a girl, she's on my mind. If I don't like a girl I don't keep things going to make sure, I make a decision and end it.
Thats pretty close to what he seems to have done. Either he's a self absorbed dick, and just expected you to be there when he's done, or he's a self absorbed dick, and he is waiting for you to leave him alone.
I don't have enough info here to offer much else, but from your description you're better off.
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