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confused.


Question Posted Friday May 8 2009, 11:57 pm

You recently responded to a girl who got drunk and made out with some guy. I'm really confused about these lines: "Anyway, someone being "forced" into sex has a lot of self esteem issues, and just being forced into doing something like says a lot about her judgement and character. You know you're better than that and you know your actions were not meant to harm her. Apologize to her, and hang out with your friends."

How can you say that? What is your form of definition of rape? According to dictionary.com it means: the unlawful compelling of a woman through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.

So, why are you saying she has self esteem issues and everything? She got raped. She was forced into doing something she didn't want to do. What do you mean her judgment and character? She was forced into doing something she did not want to do. I have a friend who was raped by a boy she went on a date with, he took her back to his house, forced her into having sex with him, and then he stopped talking to her. My friend was a very good person, she never did drugs, got good grades and everything. So are you telling me that my friend has bad judgment? That she has low self esteem? Guys aren't always what they seem. You have honestly no idea what you're talking about. And you should really consider redoing your question to that girl.


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Teen2TeenHelp answered Thursday May 28 2009, 12:03 am:
Okay, i guess i read it wrong. Sorry.

Why don't you tell someone about the guy then? If you still have high feelings for your friend then why was she acting like that to you?

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