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PROM DATE PROBLEMS
so prom is in like 5 days and i have a big problem..not only that i cant find a dress..but that i have
3 boys asking me to prom
and i need your advice on who i should take..
first guy who asked me was this boy named been im a 10th grader and he is a freshman well he asked me one day in class he said "hey can i take you to prom" and i said yeah
but i dought that it is still going to happen because we havent talked about it and i think he asked another girl by now
2nd guy he is a senior..and he didnt really aske me but his name is robby..and well my friends told him to take me and he was like okay i'll ask her and my friends told me and i got excited cause i kinda like him..well i do like him and i really dont want him to go to prom date less
the third guys name is brian we been friends since 8th grade and he has always kinda been in love with me..but i really dont like him like that..well anyways he was suppose to go with this other girl who is his now ex but they go in a fight and she said she didnt want to..well now he asked me and i said well idk but today...(today i heard robby was going to ask me too)
I wanna go with robby..but i want brian to go to..i dont wanna hurt anybody...and i really want to go alone but if robby asks me i know im going to say no and i really dont want brian to fell i lied to him..WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE..i dont want to depend on robby asking me but if i say yes to brian (who is calling me..bugging me to give him an answer)..and then robby asks me..Oh GOSH PLEASE HELP
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I had problems like that picking a formal date. Ultimately, who will you have the most fun with? I went with a guy I barely knew and it was awkward and I just wished I didn't have a date. Sometimes its better to go with a good friend then a guy you might like, because it will be less awkward or dramatic.
I know you don't want to hurt anyone, but you have to let them down some how, so just explain the situation and be nice about it. These guys are probably worried about it too, so try to let them know as soon as possible!
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You need to take a step back and sort your thoughts out. Stop worrying about what everyone else is going to think of who you choose. This is your date for prom and if it's important to you, you should go with who you really want to go with. You don't want to go with someone out of pity. The first guy doesn't seem like he's really an option since you didn't even mention him at the end and you two haven't talked about it.
So now it's down to Brian and Robby. Wait until tomorrow, and see if Robby asks you. He hasn't asked you yet. If he doesn't ask you tomorrow, go with Brian. You don't want Brian to find someone else to go with and have Robby decide to go with someone else, then you would be dateless. Tell Brian that you want to sleep on it, since he is bothering you about it now.
If Robby asks you and you really want to go with him over Brian, say yes. Brian will have to understand. If you choose to go with Robby, try to find one of your friends that doesn't have a date to go with Brian.
You're only in 10th grade so you still have two proms after this. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to make sure that everyone is happy and with a date. Tell Brian that he already had another date (before they broke up) and that you were wanting to go with Robby. I'm sure he will understand.
Only you know who you really want to go with. But it sounds to me like Robby is the choice, unless he doesn't ask you.
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