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He stopped talking to me...what should i do now?
okay this is a continuation from my previous question so your going to have to read my previous question first before you answer this one...okay so i decided that i was going to tell my crush how i feel...i went up to him and i told him that i needed to talk to him and he started to smile and said: about what? then this guy interrupted us so i didn't get to tell him then i told my friend about it and she said that i should go tell him but i was scared so then she went up to him and told him that i wanted to talk to him then he said: i'm coming soon...but he never came and from that day, he just stopped talking to me...but i noticed that he's everywhere i go these days, he's by my locker area often nowadays and he stares at me in the hallway when i'm talking to my friends...i don't understand
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You should try talking to him one more time. Don't randomly go up to him at school and say, "Yo. I have a crush on you." That's too aggressive and puts him on the spot in a really bad environment. School isn't a good environment to tell people you like them because all of their friends are there judging them. Don't say, "I have something to tell you" either. And definitely, definitely do not have any of your friends talk to him again. That will just make you look obsessive and immature.
Make one more attempt to talk to him, but this time try to find his MySpace page and start up a chat on there or if you get total privacy at any time during school, talk to him. But do not tell him you like him in your first conversation. Don't even hint around about it. He'll get the picture. Wait until you guys talk regularly before you tell him you have a crush on him. And don't say "I have a crush on you" when you do tell him. Tell him that you like him. "Crush" is an elementary school thing.
If your final attempt somehow doesn't work, don't try again. If he likes you, you'll know about it. If he doesn't respond well (or at all) just try to move on.
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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