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should i stay or should i go?
I have a boyfriend named K(We'll name him K). I tell him that i love him and he just says "meh" and doesn't say it back. I went over to "K"s house and he completely ignored me. I told him that i wont kiss him for a week, but he said that he doesn't care if i kiss him or not. When i told him that i was mad at him, before i could explain, he went to his basement. I have 4th block with "K" and i think i have to break up with him. I most likely will lose him as a friend and i can't afford to lose another friend. After i break up with him, should i try to be friends or just forget about it?
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How long has this been going on? Couples go through rough patches. When the fights/apathy start to outweigh the time spent being affectionate and loving each other, it's time to go. Depending on how long you've been together, you could wait a little while, try a little longer, but it might be wasted effort in the end.
After you break up with him, it wouldn't hurt to try to be friends. Just don't get your hopes up too much, because it's pretty hurtful when it doesn't work, and it's even tougher if you try too hard.
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I think breaking up with him is a good idea. He doesn't seem that into you. He doesn't act like he cares one way or another whether you break up with him or don't. As far as being friends goes, see how he reacts to the break up. If he's immature and gets mad about it, just give him time to think things over. Let him come to you when he's ready to be friends. If he doesn't come to you, he's not worth having as a friend. If he handles the break up well, you can still be friends with him. But don't be clingy or controlling. Don't expect him to want to hang out all the time and don't get mad when he dates other girls.
Hope this helps,
Darby
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I think you should give him his space. It seems as if this guy is not in to you as much as you are in to him. I personally feel that a girl should never allow a guy to see that she is more interested in him than he is in her, even if that is the case, because guys tend to take advantage of that. If he really wants you allow him to persue you and not the other way around. And as far as being friends, like I said, give him his space. He will soon realize that he has giving up a good friend and he will come areound to his senses.
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