I have been going out with this guy for 6 months now. I totally love him. But before i started going out with him he was going out with this girl. He actually cheated on her with me, but broke up with her to be with me. But when the girl found out he was with me she got mad and started stuff with me. I guess she is hurt and stuff. We even got in a fight in school (she goes to the same school as me.) But i found out my bf still talks to her. And it is late when they talk. I never told him to stop talking to her but he said he did but I know he hasn't. Why is he lying to me, does he still have feelings for her?? Or what is it?? I dont know what to think!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Darby answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 1:43 am: This kid is a cheater. He cheated on his ex for you. What makes you think he's not going to cheat on you for his ex? He's just playing games. It doesn't make sense for him to lie about talking to her if there's not something going on. If it was just a normal friendly chat a) it wouldn't be so late & b) he wouldn't have told you that he doesn't talk to her. You have every right to think something is up here. You need to get to the bottom of it. If you find out that he is cheating on you, move on. Don't try to fight his ex or anything like that. They're perfect for each other if she would take him back after that.
HottStuff answered Monday May 4 2009, 7:03 pm: Well since he cheated at all in the 1st place...that just shows that he's a cheater. And even though this time when he cheated...it was in your favor, but chances are that he could cheat on you too.
So yeah, you have the right to be suspisious because by the looks of it...it doesn't seem like you can trust this guy. Especially since you know he's lying. And trust is very important in a relationship.
So since you have no reason to trust him and he's lying to you and he has cheated before..and chances are he could cheat on you too...then why are you still with this guy? lol..no to sound harsh or anything...I'm just trying to get my point across...
but yeah, I think he might still have feelings for her. And you know that...once you love someone, you never completely get over them. you'll always have even the tiniest bit of feelings towards them.
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