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i need alittle ecouragement or understanding about my relationship!
okay so i have been dateing a guy or at least with him for nearing three and a half years. we have been through hell and back. basically our relationship is open to public but my mom knows.
and he has a girlfriend that he has been with for a year. which highly pisses me off but i have dated around too but noone can make me fall in love because i love him. but i don't want to deal with this alone. and honestly i have took a bunch of shit. i just need to talk to someone who can honestly help me through this because i will talk to you completly answer any of your questions to just find mine. please talk to me.
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I think age has a big thing to do with it. When I was younger I was so adament on falling in love I would always pick the wrong guys. When we would break up I surely knew the world was over...I wouldn't want to eat, get out of bed etc.
It's really hard to take a step back and look at the whole picture. Do you really want someone to have your heart when you don't have theirs?
There is a book called "The Secret;" check it out. It offeres some really good advive when you need to think outside of the box and become a stronger person.
If you've taken so much shit...think of what it would feel like to be with someone that is there for you to lean on.....or to have love you when you need it. You seem fairly pensive; I think you deserve better. You've obviously given it a lot more thought than he has.
Take your heart back and heal it....don't push to find someone...I was always told "If you follow your heart too much you will lose your mind, if you follow yuor mind too much you will lose your heart." Try and find your balance...that book should help too.
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Wow that has to be a tough situation, I'm sure that you feel confused & used bu this boy. It is very tough when you are in love with someone & they are sending you mixed signals.
Are you actually dating this guy or are you just friends? Were you dating & broke up? I need all the details so I can give you the best advice possible.
You can email me at bacardii_caddy@yahoo.com & we can talk further about your situation.
Hope I can help you :)
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