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how do i deal with my friend?
i have a best friend. she is always there for me and i trust her with everything. i often hang out with her alot. She is fun sometimes and a copy cat the next. she is always wanting to get the same things i want and crushes on the same guys i like. i try to be a unique person but, i cant when she gets everything i get. how do i deal with her?
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It sounds like she's jealous. I know that it makes you mad but a lot of girls would like other girls to be jealous of them. if she wants to be just like you it means that she likes what you have. tell her that you would like to have your own style and that it kinda bugs you that she tries to be jsut like you.
But tell her nicer than that or it could turn into a fight. Hope i helped =]
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While it is flattering when someone likes your stuff enough to copy it, it can also be very irritating. You should try to talk to your friend the next time she crushes on a guy you like or does something similar to that. Don't be immature or irrational about it. Just passively mention it so that she won't feel as though she's being attacked. If she feels like you're accusing her of something, she will quickly get defensive and it could lead into a big fight. Try to make it as casual as possible. Maybe tell her about someone you know has a crush on her, or tell her what a cute couple her and (insert name here) would make.
Hope this helps
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-Darby
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