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my familes lost trust in me
My family doesnt allow me to have a boyfriend, but obviously me being a teenager i dont listen and do as i please! So last year i had a boyfriend and i had got caught with him; then i had to break up with him. After that my family had lost trust in me, and ive tried to gain it back. However this year i got another boyfriend, and my family did not approve, as he isnt the same colour as me! Yet again i have lost my families trust, but this time its major! My family think i have broke up with him, but i really havnt. I want to gain my trust back, but i dont know how to.. any ideas...?
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Your family i don't know about them, but if it was my family and they lost trust in me because i got a boyfriend of a different race, i honestly wouldn't care, because it isn't like your going to marry him and if you are then shouldn't the love between you and him be the one thing your family should look at and forget the fact that he is a different race.
But if you really wish to gain trust then tell them what you feel, if of course you haven't tried that yet. this is because one it isn't there life to order about it is yours, and plus we are the boring generation we got to do something with our time before we all go old and have kids and do exactly the same thing to them as our parents did to us even though we all say we won't. do you understand this might be something that your family is just going to have to deal with depending on how old you are they can't touch you if your 17 to 18 years old because your an adult, if you below that age wait and when you turn those ages show them that this is your life and no one elses they can't control you forever.
i hoped i helped you good luck
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