Ok first I would never betray a friend even if his girl wanted to go out with me. I'm just curious so maybe she might have a friend like her she could hook me up with, I would have loved to have met her first but things didn't happen that way and she and him are a perfect match she was browsing girls with me on a site then she said lets find you a girl with black hair (she has black hair) then out of nowhere she said here you might like her shes got purple hair (she has blue in her hair) then we where going somewhere and she asked me to do something I said no then she said she would without thinking I said yeah I'll do it to, then she laughed looking at her boyfriend(my friend) and said told ya,
It sounded like I told you so kinda laugh but neither said anything else after that like they both know I like her, Like I said I couldnt betray a friend just wondering if she knows I like her or am I just making something of nothing, im afraid of asking her to hook me up with someone like her if she doesnt know (just dont want to cause an awkward moment) because she is really cool I like being friends with her to.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? JustJessOx answered Monday June 22 2009, 10:37 pm: hey there,
this is always a horrible situation to be in,liking your friends gf.
i know exactly how you feel ive often liked some of my friends boyfriends and gotten jealous and stuff
i think she could know you like her,if your giving off obvious signs?(dont know if you are its tough to call)
im not quite sure if trying to find a clone of her is the best idea to be honest,because that might nearly be impossible.
you will get over this girl trust me =] and youl find someone who is just as good as her,at first yeah its gonna be hard and youl find yourself comparing every other girl out there to her,but that will go away the trick is to just keep busy and keep her out of your mind distance yourself from her a little bit until your sure you can be around her all the time without feeling anything other then friendship for her until it gets easier for you.
not all girls are the same so you need to be open minded if that makes sense and the one for you will come along she may seem like the most amazing girl at the momment but honestly that will fade.
maybe ask her if she has any signle friends she could hook you up with instead? defenatly dont say "ones that are like you" because that will come off bad and your friend might get pissed at you and think your trying to take her from him espically if they dont know you like her.
hope i made sense and helped in any way!
good luck
much <3
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