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Cheating-Breaking up for his own good.
So I met this guy in september and we instantly hit it off. We became best friends, like we had knows each other for years. We told each other everything that happened. We were together in a way that only we understood. We live 2 hours away, and are currently on an exchange. So we had the type of relationship where it was okay to kiss other people, and from the beggining out relationship was about trust. Telling each other when things happened, if we kissed someone and so on. Then I went on a trip for a month and when I got back things were different, I only wanted to be with him, and we got a lot more serious.(by this time we have known each other 7 months) But after a while I started longing for another guys kiss, so I went for it. I kissed 4 guys in one week. And since its about trust, and I felt horrible for doing it, I thought I would do the right thing, I knew I had to tell him but I knew I had to break up with him as well. He did not take it very good, either did all of our friends, they all turned against me and he did not talk to me for about 3 weeks. It was the hardest time of my life. On all ends of the world, I love that kid. I spent hours and hours crying, trying to get a hold of him, looking at our pictures. Once he finally talked to me, it was better but I felt that our friendship was different and it will never be the same. He says I can tell him anything and that we are still friends. But I feel like if i were to tell him somethings, he would feel the need to do it and be better than me, because thats the way he is, he would want to show me he can do it also. I need my best friend back, but most of all I want the love back. Back in the US, we live in different states, different sides of the country. I plan on visiting him during christmas break, and he had talked about moving near me.
The way I see it is, I did the better thing, I took the adult step and told him, broke up with him because it was for his own good. And he can't see that, all he sees is the bad in me. I have done everything I can think of to show him I care, to show him I will be there and that I want to be with him but he can't see it anymore.
Help me out.
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i would take it slow. just talk to him. but if yall were to get back together dont be with other people dont kiss another person. jsut be together. if he is talking about moving closer to you. than he still had those feelings. it seems he just doesnt want to continue with them in the case it could hurt him.
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